Tattalin sha'awa ko kuma zancen batsa?

Neman zane kimanin 69 don rubutun jiya na gamu da kowane irin zanen jima'i cewa ba wai kawai suna iyaka ne da mummunan dandano ba, amma suna birgima a ciki kamar aladu a alade; don haka wata tambaya ta faɗo a zuciya: menene banbanci tsakanin zane-zanen batsa da na batsa?

Bambanci iri ɗaya kamar na kowane bayyanuwar fasaha, tunda tattoo yana daya daga cikinsu: batsa, lalata. Akwai jarfa waɗanda suke ɓoyewa, waɗanda ke lalata da nunawa ba tare da nunawa ba; Sauran, kodayake, suna yin jima'i ba tare da alheri ba, masu ban dariya, marasa fa'ida da rashin daɗi.

Ina ganin ya kamata mu kara girmama wasu, amma gaskiyar ita ce cewa kowa yana da 'yanci ga yin abin da yake so a fatarsa, koda kuwa hakan na nufin sanya mutane cikin rashin jin dadi; amma, daidai wannan dalili, ɗayan yana da 'yanci kada yayi tunani kamar mu, don lakafta mu da nuna mana yatsa: idan muna so 'yanci a gare mu, dole ne mu ba wasu 'yanci. Suna yi mana alama kuma muna yiwa kanmu alama: wannan mai sauki ne.

Wani abu da ya zama ruwan dare gama gari shine samun zane mara kyau ta hanyar zane nishadi, barkwanci mai ban dariya, zane kore, zancen jima'i. Ina son mutane da barkwanci, na riga na sadaukar da sakonni ga jarfa mai ban dariya kafin kuma idan kun biyo ni zaku ga cewa ina da cigaba sosai, amma batun shine kuyi taka tsantsan saboda abin da muke gani mai ban dariya a yau ba lallai bane ya zama mai ban dariya gobe kuma daya daga cikin halayen barkwanci shine lokacin da kuke kun ji su sau da yawa ba ku da dariya.

A zahiri, a cikin Nunin Rufin sama "Mafarkin dare cikin tawada" yawancin tatuttukan da mutane suke so su goge sune batsa batsa wanda aka yiwa kyan gani a daren maye tare da abokan aiki.

Tattalin sha'awa ko kuma zancen batsa? Kuna yanke shawara, amma ku tuna: zane zai iya yin alama a rayuwarku koda kuwa an rufe ko an cire shi da laser: tattoo tare da kai.