Nehurombo, iyo kusarura kurwisana ne ma tatoo ivo chimwe chinhu chakajairika. Kana iwe uri munhu akanyorwa, iwe pamwe wakambonzwa zvinhu zvakaita sekuti: "Uye uchaitei kana iwe wakura uye nyora?" "Zvinoita sezvakanaka kwandiri kuti vamwe vanoiswa matatoo, asi handingazvibvumidze kuvana vangu." “Zvichakuomera kuti uwane basa na ma tatoo. "
Nomuzvarirwo, hapana munhu anofarira kunzwa zvinhu zvakadaro. Ndaneta nekunzwa zvisina hwaro zvinhu kubva kuvanhu vasingatombonetseke kufunga nezvavari kutaura. Asi wakambozvibvunza here kuti izvi zvinobva kupi kusarura?
Tsananguro pfupi nezvekusarura
ari kusarura, sekuratidza kunoita zita, inyaya dzepfungwa dzinoitwa nevanhu vasingamire kuti vafunge nezvezvavanotaura. Ivo vanotora seyakareruka chokwadi pasina hwaro, asingamire kuti afunge kupesanisa chokwadi, nekuti munhu ane husimbe nemasikirwo, uye asingadi chero chinhu chinofamba kunze kwake inozivikanwa nzvimbo (kana 'comfort zone', sezvaunoda).
ari ma tatoo, kunge zvese izvo "zvakasiyana", ivo vanonyanya kukoshesa kuve kutongwa, kunyangwe nevanhu vasina kunetseka kubvunza vasati vataura chero chinhu.
Kwakatangira rusaruro kumatato
Kwakatangira iyo rusaruro kumatatoo misi kubva panguva dzakafambwa naCaptain Cook kune imwe polynesian zviwi kwaakaona vamwe vagari veko vachishongedza miviri yavo neingi. Paive ipapo, pakudzokera kuEurope, iko kusarura vanhu kwakazvarwa nyora. Kusvika panguva iyoyo, maEuropean akanyorwa nyora mashoma, semuenzaniso, maKristu aigara achinyora hove, asi zvimwe zvishoma.
Neraki, zvinhu zvinoita kunge zviri kuchinja. Tora nyora zvave kuwedzera kuwanda uye kufungira pamusoro nyora kuri kupera zvishoma nezvishoma. Muchokwadi, iyo tattoo muoni uyo akandiita wangu wekupedzisira tattoo akandiudza kuti aive nezvakawanda vatengi vakuru, kusanganisira mukadzi aive nemazita evazukuru vake akanyorwa matinji pachifuva chake. Padivi nepadivi, saka paisazove nekurwa.