Uma uthola tattoo ngaphandle kokutshela abazali bakho, lowo mzuzu ungase ubonakale ungenakwenzeka futhi unzima, kodwa Masikhumbule ukuthi ukwethembeka kuyindlela engcono kakhulu. Ukuthi abazali bakho bayasivuma noma cha isinqumo sakho sokudweba umzimba kuncike ezicini eziningana. Kubalulekile ukuthi uphumele obala futhi uthembeke kubazali bakho mayelana nezinqumo zakho, nokuthi ukhulume nabo ngendlela enenhlonipho neyokuqonda.
Kungase kudingeke futhi ulungiselele intukuthelo, ukudumazeka okuthile, kodwa Uma uzilungiselele futhi ulawula imizwa yakho, ingxoxo ingase ibe nezithelo.
Kubalulekile ukucabangela amanye amathiphu namasu okukwenza ngaphandle kokungabaza nangokuzimisela. Okulandelayo, sizobona izincomo ezingakusiza lapho utshela abazali bakho.
Qala ukutshela abazali bakho izinto eziyisisekelo
Kulokhu, ulwazi olubalulekile okufanele ulutshele kuzoba ikuphi i-tattoo etholakala emzimbeni wakho nokuthi kungani unqume ukuyithola.
Lokhu kuzobanikeza umhlahlandlela ocabange ngawo ngaphambi kokuwenza. Kungaba umqondo omuhle futhi ukubachazela incazelo yomklamo, noma ngabe kwakuyi-a inhlonipho kothandekayo, idethi enencazelo ekhethekile kuwe, okusho ukuthi ibingekho ngokufisa. Kumelwe usho ukuthi leyo tattoo esikhumbeni sakho iyisikhumbuzo esihlala njalo somcimbi owaba nomthelela empilweni yakho.
Cabangela umbono wabo
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi abazali bakho bangase bangabi nawo umbono ofanayo mayelana nama-tattoos njengawe. Emasikweni amaningi, ama-tattoos asabhekwa njengento engafanele.
Abazali bakho bangase babe nokukhathazeka okufanelekile mayelana nemiphumela yokuthola i-tattoo nokuthi ingabathinta kanjani ubudlelwano bakho bomuntu siqu nobuchwepheshile. Kubalulekile ukuthi ube nomqondo ovulekile futhi uqonde izinto ezibakhathazayo.
Khetha isikhathi nendawo efanele
Lapho unquma ukutshela abazali bakho ukuthi une-tattoo, kubalulekile ukukhetha isikhathi nendawo efanele. Thola indawo ethule nenethezekile lapho wena nabazali bakho ningaxoxa khona ngokukhululekile.
Futhi Kubalulekile ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuphuma kwezindaba abazali bakho bangakhathazeki ngezinye izinkinga. noma ucindezelekile ngomcimbi womndeni. Kuhle ukuba nengxoxo endaweni ekhululekile, lapho bengakunika khona konke ukunaka kwabo.
Qiniseka ukuthi unesikhathi esanele sokukhuluma ngesinqumo sakho futhi uphendule yonke imibuzo abazali bakho abangaba nayo.
Thembeka futhi uhlonipheke
Ukwethembeka kuyisihluthulelo sokuba nengxoxo eyakhayo neqondile mayelana ne-tattoo yakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume ngokungagwegwesi futhi uthembeke kubazali bakho ngesinqumo sakho.
Zilungiselele ukuhlanganyela engxoxweni enenhlonipho neqondayo mayelana nokukhathazeka kwabo. Kubalulekile ukuthi ulalele imibono yabo futhi ubanikeze ithemba lokuthi i-tattoo yakho icutshungulwe ngokucophelela.
Gwema ukuphathwa kabi
Zama ukugwema inselele futhi usho izinto ezinjengokuthi “Ngenza engikufunayo ngoba kungumzimba wami”, noma “akuwona umsebenzi wakho”, lokhu empeleni kungabonisa ukungavuthwa ohlangothini lwakho kanye nokuntula inhlonipho kubazali bakho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umdala kangakanani, abazali bakho bayohlale bekhathazeka ngawe, impilo yakho, nezinqumo ozenzayo. futhi bayohlala befuna okungcono kakhulu kuwe, namuhla abakholelwa ukuthi kungcono kakhulu.
Inikeza ulwazi nezimpikiswano
Ungasiza abazali bakho baqonde isinqumo sakho sokwenza i-tattoo ngokubanikeza ulwazi mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini nokuthi kungani kubalulekile kuwe. Chaza umklamo nokubaluleka kwawo kuwe.
Futhi, Chazela abazali bakho ukuthi uyabazi ubungozi obuhlobene nokuzidweba futhi uthathe zonke izinyathelo zokuphepha ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ululama ngendlela efanele. (kumele umkhombise lapho esevele ekhona uphulukiswe ngokuphelele).
Kubalulekile ukwazisa ngendawo oyithole kuyo, ukuthi ibithobela yonke imihlahlandlela yezempilo kanye nezimo zokuphepha, nokuthi uqinisekise lonke lolo lwazi ngaphambi kokuthola i-tattoo.
Zinike isikhathi sokufanisa
Abazali bakho bangase bangajabuli ngezindaba ekuqaleni. Banike isikhathi abasidingayo ukuze bahlanganise ulwazi. Baqinisekise ukuthi isinqumo sakho sokwenza i-tattoo asikayishintshi indlela ozizwa ngayo ngabo noma ubuhlobo bakho nabo. Banikeze isikhala abasidingayo ukuze bagaye isinqumo sakho.
Hlala uzolile futhi wamukele ukusabela kwabo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali bakho basabela kanjani, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale uzolile futhi uzolile. Hlala ugxile endabeni onayo futhi ulalele lokho abazali bakho abakushoyo.
Ungase ungavumelani nokusabela kwabo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uhloniphe umbono wabo. Bavumele baveze okubakhathazayo futhi baxoxe ngakho ngokukhululekile nangenhlonipho.
Ukuzibophezela nesivumelwano sokuhloniphana
Uma abazali bakho besaphikisana ne-tattoo yakho, zama ukuthola ukuvumelana. Lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi uyavuma ukumboza i-tattoo yakho ezimweni ezithile noma ungatholi amanye ama-tattoos esikhathini esizayo.
Qinisekisa abazali bakho ukuthi uyaziqonda futhi uyazihlonipha izinto ezibakhathazayo nokuthi uzimisele ukuyekethisa ukuze wakhe ubuhlobo bokwethembana nenhlonipho.
Kufanele ukukhumbule ukuthi kuncike kuwena ukuthi bayakwamukela yini, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yendlela ozoqhuba ngayo le ngxoxo.
Uma bekubona ujabulile ngesinqumo osithathile, kuzoba lula ukuthi basamukele. Uma ukhuluma nabo ngesihloko ngenhlonipho nangesizotha, uyokwenza kube lula ngabazali bakho ukwamukela lesi sigaba esisha ekuphileni kwakho.
Okokugcina, ukutshela abazali bakho ukuthi une-tattoo kungaba yinto enzima futhi ecindezelayo. Ukugcina ingxoxo eyakhayo neyakhayo, Kubalulekile ukucabangela umbono wabo, ukukhetha isikhathi nendawo efanele, ukwethembeka, inhlonipho, nokunikeza ulwazi nezimpikiswano.
Nika abazali bakho isikhathi abasidingayo ukuze balinganise futhi bamukele isinqumo sakho. Hlala uzolile futhi wamukele ukusabela kwakhe, futhi uvulekele ukuthola ukuvumelana. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uqinise abazali bakho, ukubazisa ukuthi isinqumo sakho sokwenza i-tattoo asizange siguqule umbono wakho ngabo. Ngokukhuluma ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka, ungasiza ekwakheni ukwethemba nokuqonda okuhlala njalo kubazali bakho.